Monday, August 3, 2015
1012 C Street  •  Floresville, TX 78114  •  Phone: 830-216-4519  •  Fax: 830-393-3219  • 

WCN Site Search


Lost & Found

Found: Horse by F.M. 2579 and C.R. 126, Floresville. Call 818-416-3372 to describe.
Lost: Black cow off Hwy. 119 and Denhawken area, has a horseshoe brand with N on left hip and two ear tags. Call 830-391-5589 or 830-391-4802.
Lost: Male Chihuahua, July 4, white with brown spots, walks slow, older dog, last seen walking down F.M. 541, Poth. Call 830-400-9851 if you seen Snowball.
More Lost & Found ads ›

Help Wanted

Experienced dog groomer needed at Floresville area dog grooming and boarding business. Apply by calling, 210-621-4602.
The Floresville Independent School District is accepting applications for: Licensed Plumber, Monday-Friday from 7:30-4:30. Applications may be submitted online at www.fisd.us. FISD Personnel Office is located at 1200 5th St., Floresville, Texas, 830-393-5300, (Office hours: 8:00–4:30). Applications will be accepted until all positions are filled. An Equal Opportunity Employer. 
More Help Wanted ads ›

Featured Videos





Video Vault ›
You’ve been granted free access to this subscribers only article.

South Texas Living


Government assistance




E-Mail this Story to a Friend
Print this Story
Dave Ramsey
February 6, 2013 | 2,505 views | Post a comment

Dear Dave,

I’m a single mom with three young children. I quit my nursing job a few years ago to be a stay-at-home mom, and one year later my husband filed for divorce. The state isn’t keeping him accountable for child support, but now I qualify for food stamps. Do you feel it’s morally wrong to be on government assistance?

Rebecca

Dear Rebecca,

There’s nothing morally wrong with receiving food stamps, as long as you’re not lying about your income or situation in order to receive them. The biggest problem with food stamps, and other forms of government assistance, is many times a person becomes dependent on someone else to take care of them. I don’t want you and your kids to develop a victim mentality and become trapped in a cycle of substandard living.

You said you were a nurse before you came home to be with the kids, right? I’d suggest updating your nursing certification, if necessary, and going back to work in your field -- maybe even as an emergency room nurse. I know the hours can be weird, but the pay is great. It would really get your income rolling again, plus you could afford to pay someone to look after the kids when necessary.

You’ve been through a lot, Rebecca. Life has knocked you around lately, so it’s okay if you need to take food stamps for a little while. But I’d encourage you to start thinking from a long-term perspective as to what it’ll take to move forward and generate a good, livable income for you and your kids. Get into attack mode, take your nursing degree, intelligence, and experience, and create a quality life for your family. I know you can do it!

Dear Dave,

I made a huge mistake and allowed my sister to use my credit card. She said she’d pay back what she charged, but now she won’t pay the bill. The total was $5,500. Do you have any advice?

Marie

Dear Marie,

I’m afraid I don’t have anything to give you that will make your sister grow some integrity and character. I used to tell my kids when they were younger not to bust the trust, because that kind of thing is very hard to put back together.

I’d be pretty upset about this too. Still, obsessing over it isn’t going to solve anything. And really, when it comes right down to it, you opened the door for this to happen. You really have no one to blame but yourself.

If it were me, I’d do whatever it took to pay this off quickly. Put in additional hours at your job or find some part-time work at night and on weekends for a few months. Somewhere along the line I’d also leave my sister a message saying I know she’s not going to pay this, but that everything is forgiven.

I call something like this “paying your stupid tax,” and it’s something that all of us have had to pay at one time or another. Learn from the experience, Marie. Loaning money to family or friends can damage the relationship. Keep in mind, too, that she’s probably going to come back around wanting money at some point again. But I’m guessing you won’t make the same mistake twice, will you? The First National Bank of Marie is closed!

Dave Ramsey is a best-selling author of The Total Money Makeover and the nationally syndicated host of “The Dave Ramsey Show,” which airs locally on radio station 550 KTSA. View column archives at www.daveramsey.org. Questioners’ identities have not been verified by the Dave $ays column or this newspaper.
 

Your Opinions and Comments


Be the first to comment on this story!


You must be logged in to post a comment.




Not a subscriber?
Subscriber, but no password?
Forgot password?

South Texas Living Archives


Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Benefit for animal shelter is Aug. 1 (July 29, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Cestohowa Altar Society ladies celebrate 60 years of service (July 29, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Church youth to hold car wash (July 29, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Don’t miss Kosciusko Picnic this Sunday (July 29, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Free movie Friday in Poth (July 29, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Historical marker denotes former school site (July 29, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Legion Auxiliary garage sale Aug. 1 (July 29, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Life in the Camp Ranch community (July 29, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Luciano Pacheco – the sole Tejano survivor of the Alamo (July 29, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Opry helps fund historical markers (July 29, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Popeye beach pail (July 29, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. See a free flick in Elmendorf (July 29, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Stuff the bus in Stockdale (July 29, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Summer program ends at Falls City library (July 29, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. WCRSP delivers children’s books to schools (July 29, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Balance classes start July 27 (July 22, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Be a high roller in Floresville (July 22, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Bobble-head Bozo (July 22, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Cool down with free snow cones (July 22, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Copper-pot craftsmanship — CINCO Vodka (July 22, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Marion Sausage Supper is Aug. 1 (July 22, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Mu Chi members attend state convention (July 22, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Opry lineup is sure to satisfy (July 22, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Save the date for Kody Fest Aug. 8 (July 22, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Shop ‘Trinkets and Treasures’ (July 22, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. SSCA seeks donations for rummage sale (July 22, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Start two-stepping at FUMC (July 22, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Texas sales-tax holiday (July 22, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. The Landing offers help for teens (July 22, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. What a difference an ‘A’ makes! (July 22, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Browse, learn, shop at Home and Garden Show (July 15, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Celebrate Czech Day in Jourdanton (July 15, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Daughters of the Republic installs officers (July 15, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Enjoy St. Anthony church fest (July 15, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Experience ‘The Hobbit’ under the stars (July 15, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Free Movies at the Park in Poth (July 15, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Learn to compost with worms (July 15, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Legion Auxiliary plans garage sale (July 15, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Library happenings (July 15, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Mystery blanket sparks search (July 15, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Night In Old Fredericksburg is July 18 (July 15, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Plan now for Beaver Roundup (July 15, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Teddy bears, pottery (July 15, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. The bridges of Wilson County (July 15, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. ‘Atomic tourists’ converge on Trinity Site ahead of 70th anniversary (July 15, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Behind the lens: Cover photo (July 8, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Bobby Flores Birthday Bash is July 11 (July 8, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Early settlers of Wilson County (July 8, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Enjoy ‘Big Hero 6’ at Movie Day (July 8, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Enjoy ‘Cool Tunes’ in Brenham (July 8, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Family violence shelter seeks volunteers (July 8, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Family weekend fun in Adkins (July 8, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. FHS Reunion is July 25 (July 8, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Fishing lures (July 8, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Give blood at Sacred Heart Church (July 8, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Hamilton earns rank of captain (July 8, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Memorial hog hunt a hit! (July 8, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Save the date for Home and Garden Show (July 8, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. See comedians in China Grove (July 8, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. ‘Alabama’ to invade K-Town (July 8, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. ‘Dying’ brings broadcaster back to life (July 8, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Bible study in Verdi (July 1, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Buses, pickup trucks, automobiles, and walking (July 1, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Davy Crockett, Depression glass (July 1, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Dog shows start July 8 (July 1, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Enjoy Fourth of July parade, concert in Seguin (July 1, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Enjoy Sunday Dances all month (July 1, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Free July 4 concerts in SA (July 1, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Free music, fireworks in Brenham (July 1, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Ice cream makers, tasters needed (July 1, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Jack's Cafe adds Sports Room and patio (July 1, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. July is for grape stomping (July 1, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Look who's flying solo! (July 1, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Memories fly following balloon stories (July 1, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Register for state-wide Chili Cook-off (July 1, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Remembering my first haircut (July 1, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Savor: Summer drinks with calories and exercise equivalents (July 1, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. South Texas Gardener reveals 'mystery plants' (July 1, 2015)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. The Gathering Music Show (July 1, 2015)