Thursday, June 30, 2016
1012 C Street  •  Floresville, TX 78114  •  Phone: 830-216-4519  •  Fax: 830-393-3219  • 

WCN Site Search


Preview the Paper Preview the Paper

Preview this week's Paper
A limited number of pages are displayed in this preview.
Preview this Week’s Issue ›
Subscribe Today ›

Lost & Found


VideoFound: male intact dog found in middle of road on 467 near Olmos loop area. Taking to a rescue or shelter soon. Cannot keep. If yours call Crystal at 830-832-4270.
*Includes FREE photo online! mywcn.com/lostandfound
Lost purse @ Maverick's Friday night June 24. Please return. No questions asked. Reward. 830-391-4013
More Lost & Found ads ›

Help Wanted

Caregivers needed. Call 830-625-0444.
EXECUTIVE office position for a Farm Mutual Insurance Company in Karnes City, TX. Requires P&C licensed individual with agency management experience. Send resume to: Heatherm@garfieldins.com For general inquiries contact 830-583-5637.
More Help Wanted ads ›

Featured Videos





Video Vault ›
You’ve been granted free access to this subscribers only article.

South Texas Living


Treat marriage like a business




E-Mail this Story to a Friend
Print this Story
February 26, 2014 | 3,661 views | Post a comment

As an immigrant from India who feels blessed to be an American citizen, Sukhjiwan Singh remains puzzled by the divorce rate here, estimated by PolitiFact.com in 2012 to be 40 to 50 percent.

“I come from a time and place in which arranged marriages were common practice -- and there was no dating allowed. It seems to me that our society today should have more successful marriages since singles can date here and get to know their future spouse before taking the plunge,” said Singh, CEO of a real estate firm, a mother of two, and a happily married wife to her husband of 35 years.

Singh has extensive experience as a counselor to victims of domestic violence, which has piqued her fascination for what works, and what doesn’t work, when searching for a lifelong partner.

“If you truly want to commit your life to a future husband or wife, but haven’t found him or her yet, there are many things you can do to ensure a successful marriage while testing the waters via dating,” said Singh, author of Marriage and the Love Myth, who offers tips for committing one’s life to the right person.

•Don’t ignore the parallels between business and dating/marriage. Just like marriages, businesses fail all the time. Both demand your best effort and resources, including an inexhaustible amount of time, dedication, and, usually, as much money as you can spare. As the fate of your business or romantic relationship goes, so goes your fate. While the experiences of both are often different, both require self-awareness, sound decision-making, and the willingness to give if they are to be successful. Of course, this means finding the right niche in business, or the right person for love.

•Follow the 80-percent rule in terms of compatibility for the “big stuff.” No two people are exactly alike, so where should a single person start measuring compatibility with another? Define the “big stuff,” which may mean religion, culture, and ethnicity for some. Another take on big stuff could be personality traits, physical characteristics, social skills, and more. Still another take could mean where two people are in life, such as profession and education. Define the big stuff; if you’re compatible on about 80 percent of the list, you should strongly consider purchasing a warranty for a great relationship. In other words, getting married.

•Communication skill -- the glue of a lasting relationship. While establishing a relationship, take note of the conversation. Does it flow and is it enjoyable, or do you find yourself bickering frequently? As with a business, you can have the ideal partner or employee who may look stellar on paper, but if you do not work well together, it’s not good for business. The same follows for a sweetheart who may seem perfect in every other way. Make sure communication is a two-way street, and watch out for frequent sarcasm toward you, which is a sign of disrespect. You should be able to talk and listen with care, respect, and proper appreciation.
 

Your Opinions and Comments


Be the first to comment on this story!


You must be logged in to post a comment.




Not a subscriber?
Subscriber, but no password?
Forgot password?

South Texas Living Archives


Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Celebrate July 4 in cradle of Texas liberty (June 29, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Freedom Fest brings in big names, big fun (June 29, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Hear Keen sounds at the river (June 29, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Paint by number (June 29, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Poth church offers Bible study, services (June 29, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Stagecoach ride in Anderson (June 29, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. The Falstaff years and the trucks (June 29, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Austin’s oldest museum offers daily tours (June 22, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Dine out with The ROCK (June 22, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Esparza reunion planned for July 9 (June 22, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Free guided hikes at Enchanted Rock (June 22, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Getting your hands dirty — in the garden with Iris Seale (June 22, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Men: Pay attention to your health (June 22, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Movies in the Park (June 22, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. New Pioneer Playroom offers hands-on learning (June 22, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Old newspaper makes memories ‘Local and Personal’ (June 22, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Poth church to celebrate 90 years (June 22, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. See Legacy of Leadership exhibit in Washington (June 22, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. SS museum plans meeting (June 22, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Tips for a safe trip to the beach (June 22, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Wall pocket (June 22, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Area seniors invited to Bingo Tuesdays (June 15, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Art Walk America contest deadline is June 23 (June 15, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Attend picnic at Dewees-Remschel House June 15 (June 15, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. DRT receives honors at state convention (June 15, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Hear patriotic tunes in Pleasanton (June 15, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. It’s gone! The Spot is gone! (June 15, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Join WASP for summer season (June 15, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Jubilee offers fun for the whole family (June 15, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Martinez Social Club keeps you dancing (June 15, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Meet 2016 Stockdale Watermelon Jubilee, rodeo court candidates (June 15, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Moms walking group invites members (June 15, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Napoli Glass (June 15, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Oak Hills Church plans yard sale (June 15, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Ramirezes celebrate golden anniversary (June 15, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. See free movies at Arcadia (June 15, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Sutherland Springs seeks volunteers (June 15, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Vendors needed for Freedom Fest (June 15, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Witness Summer Solstice performance (June 15, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Add amphibians to your landscaping (June 8, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Enjoy free summer movies at Rolling Oaks Mall (June 8, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Enjoy Pilgrim Opry (June 8, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Gene Watson in Kerrville (June 8, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Hear ‘Bach to Luckenbach’ (June 8, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Hummel plate (June 8, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. June dances in Geronimo (June 8, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Meet for Play Dates in the library (June 8, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. OLPH names 2016 Mother of the Year, May Queen (June 8, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Prepare to enter cool creation in Ice Cream Freeze-off (June 8, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Remember Flag Day June 14 (June 8, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Running group plans June 11 run (June 8, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. St. Ann Teen ACTS plan 5K Color Run (June 8, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Take Dad out to FatherFest June 19 (June 8, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. The old Wagenfuehr house in Bleu Casa Village (June 8, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Tracking an icon in the ‘horned lizard capital of Texas’ (June 8, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Building communities (June 1, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Cowboy penknife (June 1, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Garcia receives Linda West Scholarship (June 1, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Garner State Park celebrates 75 years (June 1, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Libraries prepare to launch ‘Reading Is So Delicious!’ summer program (June 1, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Lutheran Church windows relocated for a little TLC (June 1, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. St. Helena Men’s Club plans picnic (June 1, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Stockdale’s early beginnings (June 1, 2016)
Full article available to Wilson County News subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. The progression of the classic ‘koozie’ (June 1, 2016)
WCN Photo Contest HHF
WWII Clippings HHF
Coupon Q&A HHF-right
coupon home-rght
Heavenly Touch homeVoncille Bielefeld homeTriple R DC ExpertsAllstate & McBride Realty

  Copyright © 2007-2016 Wilson County News. All rights reserved. Web development by Drewa Designs.